Agree fully with Camlorn post 55. Not a super big fan of how the decision was made, but hey. I am in full support of the decision, and since Jayde has admitted there may have been better ways to go about it, I'm not going to press the issue. We're beating a dead horse by arguing about it at this point guys.
The only two reasons I have ever considered deleting threads are: 1. I posted something which hasn't gotten a single valuable response despite being up for years, and probably won't be noticed any time soon, or 2. If the responses I did get were justifiably calling me out on something stupid. If I remember right, I only deleted one thread for the latter reason, but still. This forum is easily searchable, both on the forum itself or by Google or other search engines so far as I'm aware, and a small part of me fears that my distant past could easily come up by a simple search, and if not, it's a simple matter of combing through my topics to find incriminating stuff. My own past mistakes and my guilt over them do drive me to delete the rare thread, and I can sympathize a bit with those who wish to delete some of their own threads. But I still do not believe it is reasonable to expect this to be a thing. Many forums don't allow deletion of threads. Heck, many forums do not even allow you to edit your posts after 24 hours.
Once you post something on the Internet, it's out there. Admittedly this is a double-edged sword. You could very easily slander someone and scar them for life (cyber-bullying, hacking etc.) But it also helps in good ways too, because it is a constant reminder that actions have consequences, in real life and especially on the Internet. Regardless of your beliefs on what your rights should be on a forum, everyone will have to face the reality that anything they put on the Internet is not fully their's to control. Once it leaves your computer's ram and is uploaded to a server, it's out of your hands. Just as anything you say reaches the other person's mind as soon as it leaves your lips. You can't magically undo what you've said or take it back, so the fact that this forum, and some others allowed you to delete whole conversations for the longest time, and still allows you to delete posts, is going quite against the norm of society here. I think technology has given people the facade that they are in full control of what they say even after they've said it, and if you think about it long enough, it's a very very dangerous mindset to have especially when you're 12 and aren't mature enough to know any better/different. It's so easy to make a habit of washing away all the evidence if you're about to be caught or if you're giving yourself a guilt trip over what you've done. Those reactions aren't unreasonable per say. Like I say, I do sympathize, but it just concerns me how often such abilities seem to be taken for granted by people who are far from a crisis and would only use those features for their own satisfaction.
I agree with The Great Carver, post 60, that if the delete thread feature weren't abused, it would be nice to have when it was truly necessary, but admittedly I can't think of any time it's actually been justified properly. I'm sure it has at some point though, I just didn't see it.
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