I would be happy to help in any way I can. Programming can be hard for some, and this is probably that first hurtle that your getting stuck on. Once you jump over that, things will become much easier. I have Google Summer of Code this year -- and even if I'm not accepted I'll still be working on the UEFI accessibility project -- but I'll help whenever I have.
As for money: no, no money is involved to learn how to code. All the tools are free.
As for the language: there honestly isn't one that any of us can "recommend" that would be right for you. The best option would be to try a few and see which one clicks for you. Python is a good starting language, as it provides a lot of tools and libraries for you that you can just start running with, but there are others as well. We could always start with Python and see how you handle that. If that clicks for you, then you can get going and I -- as well as anyone else who offers -- can happily help you when you need it.
The thing about programming is practice is key. When you start your definitely going to write bad code, and that's perfectly okay. Just code a lot -- any cool or interesting ideas you have, just sit down and start implementing them. Maybe they'll go nowhere, maybe they will. But the sign of a good programmer is that you've got lots of scrapped projects and lots of side projects that you like to work on besides your primary one. All of those scrapped projects and side projects might, to others, appear as you just wasting your time or something, or might give you a bad rep to others, but its all about learning. As you write more code you'll gain more familiarity with the language and your tools, and you'll learn better ways of doing things.

@3, aha. Well, I certainly won't ask for payment. It might just be me but I don't think its fair to expect you to pay since I didn't have to pay to learn myself.

I might or might not be able to help a little bit in a few weeks though sadly not now.  Any language is going to work for a turn-based JRPG.  You don't want to take this suggestion seriously but PHP does  have OpenAL bindings so technically yes even PHP.  You'll find that most of the game bits are unique to your game and that you probably need projects between here and there as stepping stones, so it might be a good idea to work out some ideas as to what those are.  You probably want to avoid trying for GUIs for a while.

I wouldn't expect a eureka moment.  I don't think I know anyone who has had a eureka moment.  I certainly never had a eureka moment.  You can learn to code pretty quickly if you're disciplined about it--I have a friend doing contracting who got up to speed far enough that he's got companies paying him to write their apps in 6 intense months of full-time work, and most of what he does is harder than a JRPG honestly, because React apps with clients that change the spec out from under you, want it done as fast as humanly possible, and won't move the deadline even if they ask for new features just aren't easy, so it's not necessarily going to take you that much.  But this is in general more of a slow skill grind than a sudden change of perspective on the topic.

Canlorn, to clarify the eureka thing, I want to explain something.

In 2013, I started college. One of the courses I took was called Programming Fundamentals, and we used GameMaker and GML for our code. Really basic stuff. We learned variables, if statements and switch (since they're nearly the same thing), Boolean variables, the various forms of loops (do until, while, for), and then got into arrays a little at the end, but not much. This much made at least some sense to me. This is where my really basic knowledge comes in. I know, for instance, that you could probably handle status effects with a form of while loop, and some more complicated AI behaviour with nested case logic. Of course, I also know that languages will differ in how this is presented.
So then they dumped us into Introduction to Java. In literally no time at all, we were talking about classes, libraries and worse. I had no idea at all what was happening. I worked, and I waited, and I hoped something would click. It didn't. Admittedly my teacher was one of those people who's very good at the work itself, but not so good at instruction (several classmates said the same thing).

So what i'm looking for is, in essence, someone to guide me until I hit some point where some of this stuff clicks and starts making sense. I know I'm not going to go from idiot to fully informed in a week, but while I understand the basic structure, the more complicated stuff is still beyond me.

@8
Well, honestly you should just stay away from java.  Telling me that this was your first experience with coding beyond the world of small examples explains a lot.  Java is very hard to explain, in that it's actually a very basic language, but the reason it makes sense is that sighted people are all UML and flowcharting the hell out of that shit.  It's not inaccessible or anything but when half your file is invocation to the object oriented programming gods and you're blind and you can't skim, and every single package is like com.camlorn.TheAudioLibrary.ReallyTheAudioLibrary.TheAudioLibraryFactory.YesWeMeanItFactory...yeah.  Enough said.  But if you can see and you're someone at Amazon it meets a lot of business use cases that we can kind of summarize as "can effectively corral the interns".  I'd just go explore something else.  You'll probably find something else much easier and I'm not being specific because it probably doesn't matter.  I have trouble reading Java code, if that tells you anything.  I could do it, it's not conceptually difficult, but it's very easy to literally drown in the noise as a blind person and the language also forces you to play multiple file ping-pong.

@9
As someone who does C/C++ and it's what puts food on the table and probably how I'm retiring young, please please don't tell people who want to become productive as fast as they can to start there.  That approach is good if and only if what you care about is learning how everything works and not really so much about having software to show your friends.  The very basic parts transfer, but everything after that turns into learning C-specific things that deal with C-specific shortcomings and it's a waste of time on the path to a JRPG.

The reason why I recommend C, is that for me, I also started on Java. Now, true, I didn't struggle as much with Java, but it still gave me some issues. When I moved on to Python, I found myself thinking "Well, at least this isn't lisp." For me, that big Eureka moment wasn't until I started learning C proper. Then again, I do best when I can understand how something works. The further away you get from System languages, the more things get abstracted into black magic. For me, python had a number of "why is this working?" moments. Types are poorly documented, by virtue of it being a dynamic typed language. I find that things can get confusing. I don't know. I guess this really depends. What kinds of things click for you well  at the moment. Where do you find yourself most comfortable?

Yeah, don't do C or C++. Please don't. Not as a beginner. C++ is far too complicated for a beginner to be able to understand, and C is "pointers everywhere" about 95 percent of the time. Its definitely not newbie friendly at all. Its good to learn later on, but definitely not yet.
Jayde, if your instructor took you onto Java, I, too, am not surprised you couldn't really get it. Java is ridiculously noisy and wordy and definitely isn't a good language IMO. It gets the job done but its not a good quality language by any means. Camlorn gave lots more info about it, so I won't repeat what he said. I think that if you were to try your hand at Python you might find yourself not struggling as much. The language is far less convoluted than Java is, and the communities for it are amazing.

I kinda relate to jayde here.
I've been trying and trying to understand python beyond variables, loops, functions, statements,  and no luck.
though I managed to pull off some of the basic  scripts with it and I was very happy.

I'll definitely agree that c is not a great language for first time learners. Even though my mentor started me off with it.

Also, java might be a great business language, when I learned it, (Or was forced to learn,) it kind of sapped my motivation.

I tried programing some years ago, but I just felt comfused. I know a little of the basics, but I also feel like I need a little help. I used BGT but I guess I have to learn an other language. Which is the easiest language? Is it python?

oh btw Jayde, the reason I said you know more than me at code is that I learned functions before objects, so when I heard you know objects, I presumed you know functions.
and you mentioned arrays, which I've never even heard of.
there is a reason I thought everyone taught functions first, because at least in python, objects are much easier to understand after you know functions, since they have a lot in common.

Dan, python can't be used to make DLL's. I don't know a hole lot about the lower level side of that, but C++ can, although it probably isn't the most friendly option on the planet, and C# has it's own issues.