This isn't a tech problem. TT is obscure but fine, and probably the most accessible option. But the sorts of people who run them aren't mature, because you're talking about undersocialized blind teenagers in most cases.
If everyone went to Discord or whatever, the same people who admin TT servers would end up running most of the communities and you'd be in the same place.
"we'll all move to a different platform, then sighted people can hang out" is sort of naive. If you go on sighted-centric channels that aren't for specific topics like programming, you will quickly discover that over half the chat is people posting a picture with no comment and then everyone else has a conversation around it, without once giving you enough context to know what the picture is. I would say that it's actually at the point that it's beginning to replace language to some extent in the youngest generations. People say that pictures are worth 1000 words and it's not meant literally and yet it still manages to be the case.
Basically, people suck, the sorts of blind people who have a ton of free time to admin a voice chat platform are the ones who tend not to have a life or any social/interpersonal skills at all, and the badness just congregates. I'm not saying that's everyone. Good mods/admins do exist. What I've seen of the audiogaming discord is all right. But nonetheless that's the social dynamic and it doesn't matter where we go, because it probably always will be. Find a good one, if you can, and stay there.
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