When he comes back from his break he can read this.
@dan_gero
In this case, Ironcross didn't do anything wrong. Sure, his language, but it's an online forum dude. People aren't going to have appropriate social skills. Two options. One, leave it alone, especially since it didn't have anything to do with you. Or 2, pm the person asking if they mind editing the post. If they deny, as long as they aren't rude by it, at least you can say you asked politely, and leave it there.
But this is what I really want to talk about.
Just because this is a forum for socializing, that doesn't mean you always have to talk about people.
You talk to people, not about people. And you talk to them about the subject at hand, or if you are going to go off topic, talk about something related to subject at hand. Unless you want to troll, that's cool too, sometimes.
But you always want to target other people's flaws, not your own. Yeah, it's hard to improve flaws and own up to mistakes, especially when you make a lot of them. But you got to work on your own before other people's, and you have to take credibility for your mistakes, not after people have pointed them out, actually you should be the first person to admit to it. Edit your post acknowledging your mistake before others make 15 replies to it.
And the last thing that I want you to do is this.
This place is toxic. It's full of negativity. So why don't you set an example of how we can say things nicely and be positive instead of negative and targeting. Some people are going to make the joke, that's too high expectations. I'm not judging on your character whether you can or can't. But instead of finding something negative to say, find something positive to say to someone.
I like the way you wrote that.
Thank you for doing so many good things for the community.
Thank you for banning redfox for another trolling topic.
Thanks mods for the hard work.
Thanks Zarvox for being the best person ever and you are my God.