i've seen this in some forums, when you enter the website a page pops up and tells you that you have a new message and asks you if you want to read the message or not, could that be implomented here too?
Yeah, that would be pretty useful.
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Also another thing it would be also cool if we got a notification when people mentioned us / our post / quoted us, some forums have that and it's useful.