Topic by The Imaginatrix 2017-04-02 14:04:08

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Hi again,
Since I've seen him be more active on the forum recently, I've tried to email and pm Lukas again, and he still hasn't responded to anything. I know he's offline right now and probably everyone is because it's very early in the morning for many, but please, if anyone can help me reach him, I'd sincerely appreciate it. I'd feel wrong asking for other ways to contact him on here, as I don't want to push his boundaries. I just have nowhere else to turn if he won't respond to emails or pms.
Note: No, this isn't Lukas Brown.

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Reply by grryfindore 2017-04-02 14:36:44

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Hi The Imaginatrix,

I hope I don't come across as rude or harsh,in fact I'll try not to be, but if you have seen him be active on the forums, then he has probably seen your post, and is probably receiving your e-mails and pms and the fact that he hasn't replied to any of your messages anywhere, should be a pretty good indicator that he either doesn't have the time for it, or doesn't wish to talk or communicate with you further. That being the case, if I were you I'd respect his wishes and leave him be. Either just time will fix it,or if he doesn't wish to communicate further that would be that.

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Reply by SLJ 2017-04-02 22:43:33

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Yeah, I agree. He properly won't talk to you for some reason. You must have a very good reason for reaching out to him when you keep posting about this. But you can't force him to reply privately if he don't wants to.
Sounds like you've send him multiple mails, and that's the only thing you can do. If he don't wanna reply, then it's his choice. You can't do much about it. Posting about it to the public doesn't help much. Yeah, there are people here on the forum who never have replied to my mails privately, but I won't post about this here on the forum. That's my private stuff, not something for the public...

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Reply by GrannyCheeseWheel 2017-04-03 05:45:23

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agreed @2, leave the guy alone.

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Reply by Mirage 2017-04-03 22:34:30

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Online friendships pose some unique challenges. I certainly empathize with your concern, since you have no other way to contact him.
There are several things that could be going on.
Sometimes people just get overwhelmed and busy in their everyday lives.
Also, people sometimes just need to disappear from the world of social networking for a while, not because of anything a specific person has done or not done, just because they need a bit of space.
If you know you haven't done anything wrong, or had any argument with this person, then it stands to reason, that he just has his own things going on at present.
Hopefully, he'll get in touch with you again soon.
Best wishes.

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Reply by aaron 2017-04-04 17:25:54

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I wouldn't start panicking, just be patient or try again another time. I have this with online friends as well, and I get worried that if I send too many messages I'll end up bombarding them or something, so if I don't hear back I literally just wait, give it a couple of weeks a message again, or even sometimes a month depending on some factors.

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Reply by SilverMoon 2017-04-05 08:25:19

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Yes, I can empathize with your situation.
It seems, from your original message, that you have some emotional attachment with this person.
I am so very sorry for what you're going through. I do hope it will turn out.

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Reply by Guitarman 2017-04-05 21:52:02

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Hi.
I've seen you post about this before is it something that we on the forum can help you with? Or is this something personal? I don't know this guy so I can't contact him,but if I can help you in some other way I will.

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Reply by The Dwarfer 2017-04-05 22:30:43

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@op:
It is perhaps a good idea to let him contact you back in his due time, if he is interested in doing so. If you have contacted him using a method that has been proven to work between the two of you previously, it is likely there is a reason he is no longer responding to your messages. Considering all possible reasons this might be, I don't suggest you continue to send him messages, since if he is intentionally choosing not to respond for some reason or another, this could aggravate him. I personally don't have much experience with this, since if I don't respond to or talk to someone any more, the generally know why, but all people are different I suppose.

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