@afrim;
Brad mentioned this forum and The Zone, another online community of visually impaired people, and there are other similar communities.
@Dark;
If I recall correcly, in the disappointed with the blind community topic, you yourself said that you were distancing yourself from the blind and visually impaired communities and preferred to be with your sighted friends for the very same or similar reasons that Ghost Writer mentioned.
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I too have to agree with Ghost Writer and Brad. I lost my vision to an aggressive form of glaucoma two years ago. For most of the past two years, I was in a deep depression over my vision loss. I wasn't interested in doing anything or socializing. I just stayed shut in in my apartment and listened to audio books all day. But now in the past month, I've started coming out of the depression, I'm reaching out to people I've lost contact with over the past two years, reconnecting with family. and I'm getting interested in doing something useful with myself again, before I lost my vision, I was a software developer, so now I'm getting back into that, I've decided that I want to learn to develop audio games. I have a couple of ideas, and I also have ideas for a couple of programs that visually impaired people might find useful. In other words, things are looking up!
When I found this community, I thought I'd found a great place to hang out and socialize with people who might have similar points of view and outlooks because they were also visually impaired as I am. But over time, the way some people here behave, I find myself leaning away from this community and towards those communities I'd been a member of since before I lost my vision. As Ghost Writer said, I found they are generally happier, friendlier, and are very accepting that despite my blindness, I can be a useful member of the community. I find I enjoy their community more than I like this one.
An example: I;m taking a look at the NVDA screen reader as a possible alternative to JAWS. Since I would be actively comparing the two screen readers, I thought my comments would be welcome in the modern day comparison of NVDA and JAWS topic, what I got instead was to be ridiculed for my choice of file manager instead of Windows explorer and a remark that because the writer changes his own settings when he needs to he can't help me with mine, how does changing his own settings when he needs to prevent him from helping anyone else with theirs, unless he's just saying, I could help you, but I don't want to, what the heck? And besides, I never asked for any help from anyone, I was just relating some of the issues I was encountering. As a community, we should be helping each other or at the very least, respecting each other and our choices, not the ridicule and disdain I've seen people show to other people's choices just because they don't agree with theirs. Too often I've seen people ridiculed because they choose to use and like JAWS instead of NVDA, , or, in my case because I choose to use a file manager other than Windows explorer. Not only is that not right, it's unacceptable and shows a lack of tolerance and maturity.
When the topic of Freedom Scientific's ridiculous license agreement turned up, people here start calling Freedom Scientific childish name, and wish misfortune on its employees by wanting the company to go out of business so they lose their jobs. When I complained about what I thought was childish behavior, they told me to shut up and ignore them if I didn't like it. What's ironic is that while they were trying to suppress my right to speak my opinion they were speaking their own. Sorry, but it doesn't work that way unless you are a despotic ruler.