Hi aaron.
the game shouldn't be crashing when it gives you one of those messages, the status line should say something like "press c to continue" which is exactly what you have to do. If this doesn't work I'm afraid you really have got a problem somewhere, sinse fallthrough uses a lot of those moments, whenever you read a sign or notice, or attempt to carry more than your load (something which happens to me a lot sinse there are no measures of incumberence or weight of general objects in the game).
To give to peasants just type give rall, give water or give food.
the game really isn't nice to new players at all, sinse there isn't an indication of what you should do, and you don't really have the cash to even feed yourself or the where withall to fight very well even if you find a warrior you can fight. Also sinse the speeches work at random, it can take you a while to get the info you need. I actually ended up restarting about four times before I have the game I'm playing now (which i'm actually a ways through).
To give a miner spoiler, the hunting spot is 30 east, and 25 north from or'gn.
On my 4th game (the one that worked), the first items I bought were a backpack, knife, canteen and about 6 pounds food.
A backpack has a carrying capacity of 52 rather than 29 pounds, and thus is much better for carrying the proceeds of hunting.
I then hunted enough to buy myself an axe, lamp, flint and bottle of oil.
After a bit of hunting, I got good with throwing my knife, and could then try fighting, ---- assuming I met a warrior who I thought I had a vague chance of beating, which gave me a litle bit of cash.
I then setout to a certain location which had a dungeon and the chance to get some treasure, -- as a hint, try typing info on locations (even if someone doesn't explicitely say to go there), which then let me buy a sword, some armor and a burro, this let me start challenging warriors to fights, which is a better way of earning cash.
I'll give another piece of advice though, for something I did very wrong which I won't do next time, a certain item I didn't buy when I had the money, but which would've saved me a lot of time and trouble, ---- where I went for another item which at that stage I didn't need particularly.
For what this item is, I'll just advise you to explore 10 west of or'gn (actually north west, but staying on the roads is probably a better bet sinse you can visit farms for water and less easily get lost), and also to talk to peasants and warriors, ---- sinse though I've never seen a hint about the item itself, there is a hint about the place where you can get it.
With that item in hand though and enough cash to support yourself, other things become a lot more fun, though I stil admit the item handling is a right royal pest sometimes. imho this game would've been much better if you could've just naturally held 8 lb food and 1 full canteen, ---- or bought a container to do so, and so always be able to eat, drink or give food and water to peasants without huge amounts of hastle every single time, ---- sinse you'd only have to refill or replace the canteen or pick up more food when your personal stock ran low.
With our dreaming and singing, Ceaseless and sorrowless we! The glory about us clinging Of the glorious futures we see,
Our souls with high music ringing; O men! It must ever be
That we dwell in our dreaming and singing, A little apart from ye. (Arthur O'Shaughnessy 1873.)