Hi, you don't nead to hate your self, cause starting with a new char won't destroy the old one. The chars are saved on the server, so even if ya'll make a new one, you can come back to the old by just typing your name and the password.
Regarding the gender pref, it makes alot of differance cause never the mail same as femal. Alot of people slect randomly, after they come to admins by a request for changing it. The game has some text, based on that it will call you she or he, and the chois is up to you.
Also speed hack may detect you of one thing, let us say from my experiance, if the game will find a hard time loweding the sounds, it will give you speed hacks on the menu, and this is a thing has to do with your hard drive, as well as using the difault sapy voice of windows will cause speed hacks. I am an admin in STW, and I know really that the faulse speed hacks alerts are neerly gone, so logiclly speaking is that your pc has something to do with this faulse speed hack alert, cause I don't get it my self, and over 60 players don't, thus no doubt that it's a pc issue. yeah we know that all will start posting about their strong processers and things, but that really doesn't matter, if there's something doesn't work properly, get even a 32 gb of ram.
Just one thing, the speed hack protection has been included to keep cheaters away, why Sam will disturbe his brain by coding this class, if people won't speed up the game functions.
See in most video games, you've to get a strong pc, and people do it with out asking. sometimes you've to get a fresh installation of your system, and people do it with out asking, simply because they want to play the game. If you've a willing to do, you'll brake the walls to reach your aim, yet if you do not, then of course you'll just pass.
Greetings.