@jade
I mean the result may be character assassination, but we can only hope that cooler heads prevail, and the guy did say multiple times that he didn't go into the situation hoping to find any dirt on Dark, and actually had no problem with him before that.
So if you don't believe him personally, that's fine, but it's kind of hard to make that case then on a gut feeling.
Dark fears the mob mentality, I thought this even before the blog post, so closing down entire topics he thinks are getting out of hand, but really aren't if you look at them like a mod should (checking for rule violations) is not quite the same thing as being mostly hands off and giving out tons of warnings to individuals.
I really didn't see much victim blaming either, and I don't even like Smoke that much so I'm not biased in that department. Since it was after the fact and he seemed to have good evidence showing that the supposed victim deserved blame, I don't see much of an issue.
The only thing is that I'm not sure exactly what Walter did do (if anything) to piss Lorry off so much, so he probably isn't completely innocent, but internet relationship problems that don't cause actual harm don't equal what she ended up doing to him, hence the anger.
I completely agree with points 3 and 4 and mostly agree with point 5 though...
Well written post.
@ethin
Yeah I can understand reaching the end of your fuse, but Ironcross doesn't really try to control him self at all, and Dark often warns people based on their toxicity in a thread and uses their words as an example of that, which falls in line with the rules just fine.
So I'm relatively confident that what Ironcross said would have gotten him a warning even if he had been someone else, or said it months ago, which then would make sense as a final straw.
And for the most part, people seem to agree with that style of moderation and understand it... After all similar things happen on other forums quite a bit as well, and rules can't perfectly cover every exact situation.
Either way, even if your anger seems justified, if you let your self blow up like that, than consequences are likely to occur. That's just the risk you take when you post, no one made him lose control ultimately but him self, we're not machines with predictable programming that we can't break for the most part.
Here's an example, Because I'm bored.
Bob (because I think the name Bob is amusing) (a 43 year old city clerk) is tired of his college kid neighbors having constant parties with loud music late into the night while he's trying to sleep for the next days work, and the police don't really seem to care, let alone the kids them selves, who just make fun of him and slam the door in his face when ever he kindly asks them to be a bit more respectful of others, and this has been going on for 3 months now.
Eventually, Bob gets so damn tired of it all that he storms over their and confronts one of the home owners with a baseball bat. At first he means to simply scare them (play up the crazy neighbor vibe even if he's not actually crazy) in order to hopefully get them to stop. But the hungover kid is just so disrespectful and selfish that something in Bob snaps and he sees red.
Next thing you know, the college kid is in critical condition in the hospital and looking like he was in a car crash. Several broken ribs, a serious concussion with some bleeding on the brain, a few compressed vertebrae, broken jaw and nose, fractured eye socket, and a shattered forearm and dislocated shoulder from where he tried to shield his face.
The kids slutty part time girlfriend is crying and playing it up for the news cameras, his equally shitty roommates are asking (why) as if they didn't know, and the kids parents (the very same ones who failed to teach him respect in the first place) are alternately crying and screaming for Bob to get a life sentence and milking the situation for all it's worth with an online fundraiser, even though they're already well off enough to pay for his hospital bills.
Meanwhile, Bob is sitting in a jail cell, contemplating where it all went wrong after talking to his elderly mother on the phone, trying to explain to her why he nearly killed a guy for being a nuisance, when that guy never actually lay a finger on Bob, and wondering if he'll still have any friends when he gets out (if he gets out...) since his lawyer said self defense was out of the window in his state and he should probably just plead guilty, after all he had no history of mental impairment before the incident either...
So ask your self this, was it right for Bob to nearly kill that kid? Was it okay?
I mean obviously you have to feel for the guy, his livelihood and mental health were being threatened, for weeks he was nicer to these fuckers than what they deserved, and you can make the case that, even if these people were still young, showing such an attitude past their early teens meant they were probably not going to get a hole lot better with age, and were basically just Oxygen thieves anyway.
But, this kid is looking at months of recovery and likely recurring pain for his entire life. He may not be able to do certain activities unless he wants to risk recurring injury, and he's going to look like shit for a while do to his facial injuries, which to this kid means quite a bit, him being a socialite and all...
Not only that, but he's going to have to sit in court across from the guy that made him feel so powerless and took months off his life and testify against him eventually, and he's dreading it with every fiber of his being.